What makes a wife worry.....

Lately ni, our friend, ermayum berada dalam beberapa situasi yang mendukacitakan. I'm so sorry dear. I hope you and family are fine and our prayers are always with you and family.


Saya teringat masa single mingle, kalau boleh saya tak mau ada boyfriend yang naik motor. Saya ada satu trauma sikit dengan motor, sebab pernah jatuh motor masa kat rumah nenek, kakak saya yang bawa. Oleh itu, saya pastikan yang saya tidak mempunyai boyfriend atau husband yang suka naik motor. Namun, apa yang kite benci itulah yang kita dapatkan... Dah jodohkan, dapat pula boyfriend suka motor. Redha je lah. Husband is a big fan of motorbike. Masa saya kenal dia, dia naik motor Kawasaki Cyclone 150 macam dlm gambar bawah ini. Sebiji kaler, sama. Masa tu memang takut tul mak nak naik nyah, serious. Tapi saya hanya naik motor tu sekali je, first & last. Dating naik kereta. Tak kuasa nak naik, takut.





Tapi bile dah kawin, nak tak nak saya kenalah naik sekali sekala sebab nak tunjukkan kasih sayang seorg isteri dan sokongan pada hubby. Tapi bukan motor Kawasaki tu. Motor Modenas, motor yang dia bawa untuk ke office. Pastu, hubby beli motor Scooter Elegan sebab lebih selesa and sesuai untuk jalan jauh. Lama-lama, terpaksalah redha jelah. Dah hubby minat motor, so, saya pun lama-lama tak lah takut sangat nak naik motor, mungkin hubby handle it with care and of course, i feel safe with him.

His office located at Kajang, so he will use highway Bt. 9 Cheras to Kajang everyday. And those who are staying around Kajang will know the situation every morning and after 5pm, the highway will be crowded with cars. Masing-masing rushing to go home or to work. Memang sibuk.

When I read ermayum's story bout how his husband met with an accident and how his brother-in-law passed away, my whole body shivering coz this is what I dont want to think. I really dont want this thing happened to my hubby and me. I always remind him, always take care of yourself and remember me & Danisha. Your daughter still need you. I need you. Kemalangan tidak boleh dibau, kalau nak jadi, jadilah kan. kun-fayakun.


But, ALLAH ada rahsia-NYA. Last 2 year, he met with an accident. Alhamdulilah it was not so serious. He got an invitation from Modenas to follow convoy with them in conjunction of MOTOGP 2008 that was held in Sepang. So, he was so excited to join the convoy but I said NO. But he convinced me that, insya;allah nothing will happened, the Marshall and Police were there to ascort them to Sepang. Finally, I say Yes. That time Danisha was only 4 months old.
Later, after 3 hours, he came home and that time, I didn't notice any different on him. I served him a drink and asking him how the trip goes.....he replied to me, 'I accident tadi, jatuh motor'.....I was like.......haaa...accident, jatuh motor. teruk tak? Can u imagine if anything happened to him while I'm still a new mother of 4 months old baby?...nauzubillah and thank ALLAH, that was a last time he joined the convoy. Look at his condition, memang tak nampak apa-apa kecederaan pun. Tapi dia cakap, dada rasa sakit & senak, perut rasa sakit. I quickly asked him to go to the clinic. Doc cakap takde apa, just lembam-lembam sikit je. 2 hari MC tak pegi keje. Katanya, ada motor lain jatuh terkena motor dia then ikut jatuh juga. Bergolek-golek katanya. Kadang-kadang bukan salah kita, tapi disebabkan faktor lain, like, org terlanggar sikit, tayar pancit lah, macam-macam lagi.....Bila dia bangun, memang tak rasa sakit, cek seluruh badan, dia kata takde apa2. So, dia continue the convoy, since motor dia pun elok tak de apa2 masalah. Yang herannya tu, dia boleh teruskan perjalanan and tengok MOTOGP sampai setengah acara tu. Tu yang buat I tak faham, he didnt dare to call me. Dia kata takut saya marah dan tak nak kasi risau. Dan dia sendiri cakap, itu adalah kali pertama dan terakhir dia menyertai acara cam gini. Thank God.


Everytime when I'm driving, saya selalu takut terlanggar motor, sebab saya akan terkenangkan hubby pun bawa motor ke tempat keje. Kalau jadi apa2 pada mereka, macam mana dengan keluarga mereka........saya selalu terfikirkan benda-benda cam gini. Kalau yang mat-mat rempit tu, saya no comment. Itu memang selalu mendatangkan kemarahan saya. Keadaan ini yang membimbangkan saya. Setiap hari. Especially, kalau dia perlu ke kawasan yang agak jauh, I'll ensure that he will call me or I call him. Banyak kali saya witness accident yang melibatkan motor. Setiap kali berlaku depan mata, hati tak henti-henti doa agar tidak berlaku pada hubby.


Sekarang ni, hubby ada hati nak tukar motor. Tapi dia dah minat, nak buat camner, ni jelah yang buat dia rasa freedom, tenang, rilex and puas. As a dearly wife, saya sokong tak sepenuh jiwa. Bebaru ni sibuk call Naza asking for the price of Naza Blades 250. Hangin 1 badan aku. Dah minat nak buat camner. Now, eyeing for this Kawasaki 650 for RM37,000++ pula, motor idaman katanya...................sakit hati katanya asyik vroom..vroom kat telinga dia setiap kali lalu. Sabau je lah.

all pics are googled

** to my friend, erma, I hope your hubby will recover soon....